Reasons why he wants you back after a breakup.
Does he want you back after a hard breakup? What could he possibly want after he broke your heart and left you in the cold? You may be confused as to why he is all over you now or why he is trying to slide into your messages and chasing you down with phone calls.
Here are some reasons he may be back with a big bang!
13 reasons why he might be lurking around to get back with you years, months or days after a bad breakup…
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1. He has just been dumped
This is a possibility if he was two-timing at the time you were both together or after he got with another girl when he left you.
This rejection by another girl, could make him seek solace. But the irony of it is that, he is not seeking it with just anyone…he is seeking it with you.
2. He has regrets about the breakup
Familiarity brings contempt as they say. He became so familiar with you that you were no longer the number one on his list and ended up treating you the way he did. He has probably suddenly realized how important you were in his life and the bounty you brought his way, and he’s basically trying to make his way back to get those long lost goodies.
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3. He wants to get even
Now this might sound scary and hard to admit…
However, this actually depends on what exactly led to your break up in the first place. If he feels he was used or didn’t get what he was expecting for his buck or the time he spent with you, he might just be back to kick ass and seek revenge. Be on the look out.
4. He wants to have his way with you
If you had played hard to get or told him you don’t want to have sex with him or anyone else and he swallowed up your response and let it go, he might just be back to try again. Some are that hell bent and never give up when it comes to such things.
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5. He misses you
He could be missing you for different reasons especially if he is unable to get the same treats he got from you, some where else. He would definitely try to seek you out, to see if he would get the attention and love he once enjoyed when you were together.
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6. He wants to prove a point
Wait…
Not to you, but to his friends. He might just want to prove a point to show that if he comes back to you, you would most likely accept him -because he feels he is just that important and indispensable in your life. This is particularly likely, if he’s had a bet with his friends and not necessarily because he wants to really get back together with you.
This might not make sense to you and you may wonder why he would do that, but it could very well be one of the reasons why he wants you back after a bad breakup.
7. He just wants one more chance to be with you
To re-live his past with you in any way he can. Only that this time, after he gets back with you for like a few weeks or even days, he might be on his way out and you?…on your way to another heart break.
8. He is jealous
He might as well be jealous if he suddenly realizes that you moved on so quickly and quite well after your break up…or he sees you are now with some one else (and can’t stand the thought of you being with another guy apart from him). He might want to make a come back because he totally wasn’t expecting you to get over him that easily and so soon too.
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9. He is lonely
Baby, it’s cold outside…He probably thought he was going to get a replacement of you in no time but things didn’t turn out as he thought so just like the prodigal son, he wants to return “home”.
10. He sees you as a different person
Ou lala…ravishing…
He probably wants to get back with you after that bad break up because he wants a piece of that juicy pie or to at least…be seen with it.
If after your break up, you took time out to go into a thorough self care routine and are looking all snazzy for the right reasons, it might not be far off before he comes calling. This might not be surprising because he sees someone sexy and hotter than before and he probably never thought you could look the way you do right now. He might want you back in his life so he can show you off – to his friends.
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11. He wants another chance
One of the other reasons he might be back after a breakup is because he wants a second chance but his coming back doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true love.
He might undeniably want another chance this time, but things definitely most likely won’t be the same because of the hurts and high emotional sensitivity on both sides based on the relationship you both once had.
There’s actually a higher chance of another break up knocking so closely this time. Even though that wasn’t his initial intention of wanting to get back together with you, this might unfortunately be inevitable.
12. He is truly sorry
This may be likely though it doesn’t happen as often because of the masculine ego. If he comes back to you after a breakup saying he is “sorry” for the hurt and pain he caused you in the past, you should be able to decipher what is going on and if it is true, you would want to make a decision based on the surrounding circumstances that led to your break up in the first place.
13. He still loves you
Well…may be, may be not.
Love is what makes the world go round. If he still loves you, he would come running after you and pursue you with all he’s got.
You usually don’t appreciate the value of what you have till it’s gone. He probably realized how important you are and how blessed he was, to have you after he left and now…he’s back!
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Food For Thought
Now that you know the reasons why he probably wants you back after that hard breakup and based off your personal experience in your past relationship with him, will you take him back?
