20 Subtle Signs That Show He Likes You

“Does he like me or does he like me not?”…What are the subtle signs that show he likes you?

There are times we meet people and we just connect with them easily. We are unashamed to let out our feelings. We just want the other person to know we like them and that’s it.

Some people on the other hand, though like to take it a notch ahead, still find themselves holding back.

This way of subtle communication or lack of it, leaves room for confusion and doubt. You sometimes, see some exhibited actions and mannerism by a single guy that keeps you wondering what they actually mean.

It literally keeps you in the guessing game. “Does this guy like me? Is he trying to get my attention?”

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If you are wondering or left in the dark about what or how someone feels about you, these are some subtle signs that could lead you in the right direction:

20 Subtle Signs That Show He likes You

1. The way he looks at you in a seductive way

The eyes speaks its own language, you just have to pay attention. What do you think those eyes are saying to you? What’s your guts telling you? “Listen” to those eyes.

2. The tone of voice he uses when talking to you that he doesn’t use with anyone else

That unique baritone is out to get to you- in a good way. And what about the bedroom voice and solo, sexy, low tone that the conversation doesn’t necessarily warrant? Does that tone confuse you? Or may be there’s a particular way he calls your name or perhaps he has given you a sweet nick name. Don’t be lost, he is definitely up to something.

3. Body language

The eye squinting and shadowing- stealing a glance here and there when you are around. What about the way he walks when he sees you- you know, with a swag? His well built muscles? He probably has been building those muscles for you girl!..well may be for his health as well but as you know, keeping in shape does more than just that. He is not looking like a nice bloke for nothing.

4. Taking care of your needs before others or even himself

Does he always put you first -may be even before his own mom? Is he ready to piss others off just for you? Does he do anything and everything to please you? Is he a bit extra when it comes to you?

Wonderful!

Don’t overlook this subtle sign that shows he likes you.

5. He wants to talk to you all of the time

Do you see his missed calls every time? Or is he like a hawk when it comes to texting and chatting with you? Or may be he literally wants to spend endless hours with no other person but you? That’s a sign of someone on a mission.

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6. Always defending you to a fault

Does he never mind fighting for you and defending you – even when you are wrong and you both know it? That’s a subtle sign he really likes you -even if he hasn’t said anything to you yet.

7. He always wants to introduce you to others

“Hey! have you met ……..she is my very good friend”. Is this something you see and hear often? If he is ever ready to show you off to his friends or family at any time, all of the time, anywhere? He is into you.

8. He always talks about you

Have you ever walked into a meeting or a place where his group of friends are and you hear something like: “Hey…see who is here…I was just talking about you girl!” and he then tells his friends you are the one he’s been talking about?

That’s a sign.

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9. He always wants to know where you are or who you are with

Would you call it jealousy? He always asks you where you would be at 3pm, 6pm or 9pm and who you would be with or whether you would be alone. Does this sound very familiar? He also not only wants to know what you had for breakfast but for lunch and dinner as well?…He is into you.

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10. He sometimes can’t look directly into your eyes

Aaaaah…shy guy. Does he avoid any form of eye contact with you BUT steals a glance when you turn around and probably giggles at what he sees and MAY BE you’ve even caught him doing that at different times? That’s a subtle sign.

11. He always wants to please you in every way even if it hurts him

He has a test the next day but doesn’t mind staying up till 4am on test day just to make sure you are okay. What a great sacrifice…all because of you! You must be so special to him!

Pay attention.

12. He always wants to see you happy

“Awww…why are you so sad? What can I do to help? Are you okay? I won’t leave till you tell me what’s bothering you.”- and he actually doesn’t leave till he gets his answers on why you are so sad. Do you have someone like this around you? He likes you.

13. When you are sad, he is also sad

…And you can’t seem to understand why. He is so sad and concerned that you are now worried for him than for yourself.

He likes you.

14. He can’t stand it when you don’t talk to him

Does he lose his cool or get furious when you don’t reply his texts or return his calls? Do you see him suddenly show up at your door almost immediately after sending his texts or when he hasn’t heard from you in a bit?

He is all about you.

15. He openly fantasizes about you

Does he day dream about you and tell you about it? You may be wondering what’s going on or why he is saying what he is saying. Is he also fond of holding your hands every now and then while gently squeezing them as he talks to you?

No, it’s not a set up. It’s a sign.

16. He always wants to be around you

…Or sit with you. When he leaves a more convenient seat to stay close to you or be around you just so that he can chat with you or smell your hair, he has something up his sleeves.

17. He tries to look his best

No scruffiness here because he knows you will be in the same room or meeting with him. He looks top notch just to impress you, gets a nice hair cut and a clean shave. He also gets the best cologne in town to smell good too- all for you.

Isn’t that cool?

18. He can’t wait to see you

Does he act like a child knowing he would be meeting up with you soon? Yes, love or fondness can make you act like a child sometimes. If he feels all giddy so much so, that you sense and hear it in his voice and also see it in his eyes, he is not just excited for nothing, he is excited about you!

19. He always tries to make himself available for you in spite of his tight schedule

…And he does this for only you and not with others. His gestures not only shows he really likes you, it also shows you definitely hold a very special place in his heart.

20. He can’t seem to get enough of you

If he is never tired of hearing from you, looks forward to seeing you, wants to be with you all the time and often shows up randomly in places he knows you are going to be, there’s no doubt, he is into you.

Perhaps you recently started to notice some of these signs from someone you are close to or may be you had seen it in someone close to you in the past but weren’t sure it is actually what it seemed to be. These signs are clear pointers to the subtle signs.

What do you do now?

Now that you have a clue of what could be going on around you, how you handle it depends on you, who the guy is and what you really want.

Do you feel the same way he feels or would you rather have your friendship remain platonic?

Communication is important in whatever you decide to do about the friendship and making the right decision on what to do, is key.

You don’t want to be too quick that everything blows up. At the same time, you don’t want to be too slow, that you jeopardize your chances. Get the perfect timing when everything falls in place. If it’s meant to be, it will.

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Bonus Tips

-The subtle signs are the same, regardless of age.

-If you are ever in doubt, never hesitate to ask.

-As a single lady seeking to settle down with your very own man, this is the kind of guy you want to love.

Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve wondered about the subtle signs that show someone likes you? Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

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